Thank you everyone for your helpful feedback!
I went today from carpooling 4 kids down to 2. Though it took a lot of bravery, to potentially disappoint people, I made the best choice for me and my family. I worked things out and I think everyone is happy with the outcome.
I will be carpooling with a child near our home, that is all. Better for us both!
Thanks again! I am glad I asked the question!! Love always~ Wendi